Tips for House Hunting with Your Child on the Spectrum

Guidance for Families with Children with Autism when Moving

Moving is always a stressful and complicated endeavor. But when you have a child on the autism spectrum, the thought of packing up your household and moving somewhere new can seem like a near-impossible task. Parents often worry that their children will get overwhelmed by this major transition, and rightfully so. Autistic children thrive on routine and stability — everything that moving disrupts.

That’s why we’ve compiled a list of supportive tips to help you keep your child’s comfort and well-being front and center, while still managing the practical tasks of moving with an autistic child.

Establish Your Home-Buying Budget

Before starting the search for your dream home, it’s important to take time to create a clear home-buying budget. Raising an autistic child can pose a significant financial challenge for parents, even with the help of Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits. It isn’t easy to manage the costs of equipment, supplies, medication, childcare, education, and therapy services. 

Knowing your financial boundaries eases stress and lets you focus on homes that truly fit your needs. So, you need to think carefully about what your budget is and if you’re prepared to handle the additional expenses involved in buying a new home, selling your existing property, and moving.

Redfin recommends creating a realistic home-buying budget before you start looking at properties. Calculate how much of a mortgage you can afford by adding up your ongoing expenses and subtracting these from your household income to find out what’s realistic. The rule of thumb is to keep your housing costs less than 28% of your before-tax income. Once you have a better idea of your home affordability, research home prices in your area to find out what kinds of homes you can afford on your budget.

Look for Autism-Friendly Home Features

When you’re ready to start looking at homes, get in touch with a local real estate agent who can help you scout properties that will best fit your family. Keep an eye out for features that may appeal to your child and your family’s lifestyle. 

Some of the features that help reduce sensory stress and promote safety include:

• Double‑pane windows to dampen outdoor noise
• A fenced (and secure) backyard
• Quiet, low‑traffic street
• Spaces you can adapt for sensory play or calming zones
• Minimal kitchen layout to reduce visual clutter
• Soft lighting or the ability to install dimmer switches

These practical, autism‑friendly home features support your child’s comfort and daily routine.

Making a Moving Day Plan

Moving day will always feel a little overwhelming, no matter how much planning you do. But a few practical autism tips for caregivers can help you control some of that chaos. For example, you could help keep your child calm and content amid the mayhem by giving them your full attention. One way to ensure your child receives the necessary attention while your possessions reach your new home safely is by hiring professional movers. Some movers even offer activity packs for children, so be sure to ask about this when you call for quotes. When you arrive in your new home, unpack your child’s room first so they can start regaining some sense of normalcy right away.

Keep Your Child in the Loop

The most important thing to remember as you prepare for your upcoming move is to keep your child in the loop. Autistic children feel more comfortable when they know what to expect. Parents.com recommends broaching the subject early so your kid has plenty of time to process the idea of moving. Highlight some things that your child can get excited about, like a bigger bedroom or backyard where they can play. Help your child visualize the days leading up to your move by writing down everything on a dedicated moving calendar. 

On moving day, you can then help your child settle in smoothly by unpacking their room first. If you arrange familiar furniture and objects in familiar places, it can help to recreate their previous environment, easing the adjustment and supporting continuity.

Remember: continuous communication is key. Review your moving schedule every day, read children’s books about moving, and offer plenty of positive reinforcement when your child makes it through a day that deviates from their normal routine.

While autistic children often rely on predictability and consistency, when it comes to moving, things rarely go smoothly — and that’s okay. Be prepared to go with the flow and respond to issues as they arise. Monitoring your child for signs of stress and anxiety is vital. Do what you can to prepare ahead so you can focus all your attention on your child before, during, and after your move.

Know When To Ask for Help

Moving with a child on the autism spectrum can be a big undertaking. But, with thoughtful planning, compassion, and flexible pacing, it can also be a chance to build strength and resilience. By prioritizing your child’s comfort, providing visual supports and routines, and taking it one step at a time, you can help your family begin a positive new chapter together.
During this process, remember: moving takes a village. Reach out to LAC for support if your child needs extra planning, emotional preparation, or help rebuilding routines. You can also involve teachers, therapists, caregivers, or trusted family members to share in helping your child through this transition. Contact us to find out more autism tips for parents.